Usizo lwezokuxhumana nabantu
Naphezu kwalokho ongase ucabange, ukuxhumana nabantu akuyona into entsha. Njengalokhu umhlahlandlela wokuxhumana nabantu uzokuchaza, ukuxhumana nomphakathi kuye kwaba khona isikhathi eside kakhulu kunathi esibekwe kuwebhu. Sonke singabokuxhumana nabantu, futhi sisabamba iqhaza ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi.
Lo mhlahlandlela wokuxhumana nabantu uzokusiza ukuthi ufunde inguqulo yewebhu yokuxhumana nomphakathi.
Cliques
Isikole esiphakeme yisibonelo esihle kakhulu sokuxhumana nabantu okuyisisekelo esenzweni. Kukhona ama-clique ahlukahlukene afana nama-geek, imiphakathi, abagijimi, ibhande, njll. Lezi ziqephu ziyizinhlangano zomphakathi, futhi umuntu angaba ilungu lomunye wabo, ilungu leziningana, noma ilungu lalakho.
Ukujoyina inethiwekhi yezenhlalo kungafana nokuthuthela esikoleni esiphakeme. Ngosuku lwakho lokuqala, awunawo abangane. Kodwa, njengoba wazi abantu ofunda nabo ekilasini, uqala ukuthola abantu abanentshisekelo efanayo. Abanye bathanda ukujoyina amaqembu ukuze baqede ukuhlanganiswa kwabo komphakathi, kanti abanye banamahloni kakhulu lapho bengamazi.
Futhi, noma ngabe sasingazi noma sikhathalele omunye esikoleni esifunda naye, baba yilungu leqembu elikanye naye njengoba sithuthela emhlabeni. Inhlangano yonke iyinethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu, futhi amaqembu ahlanganisa izikole eziphakeme, amakolishi, ama-fraternities, indawo yomsebenzi, imboni yomsebenzi, njll.
Uke wahlangana nomuntu emcimbini noma embuthanweni wezenhlalakahle futhi wathola ukuthi awunakho okuningi okukhulumayo uze uthole ukuthi baya ekolishi elifanayo? Ngokungazelelwe, unezinto eziningi zokukhuluma ngazo.
Ukuxhumana nomphakathi kuwebhu akufani kakhulu. Ekuqaleni, uzothola ungenabo abangane, kodwa njengoba ubamba iqhaza, uhlu lwabangani bakho luzokhula. Futhi, njengokuphila, uma ubamba iqhaza ngokwengeziwe, uzophuma ngokwengeziwe.
Abangane
Amanethiwekhi omphakathi akhiwe ngokuzungeze umqondo "wabangani". Abahlale bebizwa ngokuthi "abangane." I-Linkedin , inethiwekhi yomphakathi ehloswe ngebhizinisi, ibabiza ngokuthi "ukuxhumana." Kodwa, basebenza ngendlela efanayo ngendlela kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bayabizwa.
Amalungu athembekile amalungu enethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu evame ukuvunyelwa ukwenza izinto abangewona abangavunyelwe ukuzenza. Isibonelo, ungase ukhawulele ukuthola imilayezo yangasese kusuka kunoma ubani ongekho ohlwini lwabangani bakho. Amanye amanethiwekhi omphakathi akuvumela ukuba wenze yonke iphrofayela yakho ibe yimfihlo emphakathini kabanzi futhi uvumele kuphela abangane ukuba babuke.
Abangane bangaba ngabangane bomngane wangempela kumuntu onentshisekelo efanayo, kumuntu ohlala esifundeni esifanayo, kumuntu ovele wathola ezithakazelisayo. Empeleni, bangumuntu ofuna ukulandelela kwinethiwekhi.
Izingosi zokuxhumana nabantu zivumela ukuthi uthole abangane ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene. Kukhona izici zokusesha ezivame ukuvumela ukuthi ufune abangani abanesithakazelo ezintweni ezizilibazisa ezifanayo, zeqembu elilodwa leminyaka, noma baphile endaweni ethile yomhlaba. Ungathola futhi abangane ngokusebenzisa amaqembu.
Amaqembu
Amaqembu ayisisekelo ahlanganisa idolobha, umbuso, isikole esiphakeme, ekolishi, njll. Iningi lokuxhumana nomphakathi likuvumela ukuba ujoyine lolu hlobo lwamacembu ukuze ubheke umngane noma umngane omdala olahlekile noma uvele wazi abantu. Amaqembu angaphinde afake izithakazelo ezifana nemidlalo yevidiyo, ezemidlalo, izincwadi, ama-movie, umculo, njll.
Amaqembu asebenzisa izinhloso ezimbili.
Okokuqala, kuyindlela enhle yokuhlangana nabantu abanesithakazelo esifanayo. Uma uhlale uyingcweti yezincwadi ze-Harry Potter, ungase ube nesithakazelo sokujoyina iqembu elizinikezele ku-Harry Potter futhi uhlangane nabanye abajabulela izincwadi.
Okwesibili, kuyindlela enhle yokuthola kabanzi mayelana nesihloko. Iqembu likaHarry Potter lingase libe nezingxoxo mayelana nendawo ethile yecala ezincwadini noma indawo yezincwadi ezizobhaliswa nguJK Rowling.
Amanethiwekhi omphakathi akuvumela ukuba uziveze ngezindlela eziningi ezahlukene. Indlela eyisisekelo kakhulu yokuziveza ukugcwalisa iphrofayli enikeza ulwazi oluyisisekelo njengemisebenzi yakho yokuzilibazisa, izithakazelo, imfundo, umsebenzi, njll.
Iningi lezokuxhumana zomphakathi likuvumela ukuba wenze ngokwezifiso ikhasi lakho lephrofayela ngezingqikithi ezihlukahlukene ezingafaka umbala wombala nesithombe sangemuva. Abanye bakwenza lokhu ngokweqile bevumela abasebenzisi ukuba bakhethe uhlu lwadlalwayo lwabaculi abazithandayo, amavidyo kliphu abathola amahle noma abathandekayo, ngisho namawijethi noma izinhlelo zokusebenza zangaphandle.
Ukuxhumana nabantu kungabandakanya ibhulogi ukuvumela abantu bazi ukuthi kwenzekani, igalari yezithombe, noma ezinye izinhlobo zokuziveza.
Ukuzijabulisa Nokukwenza Ibhizinisi
Kunezizathu eziningi ezihlukahlukene zokujoyina inethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu ukuhlangana nabantu ukuze ufunde kabanzi mayelana nendaba, kodwa izizathu ezimbili ezithandwa kakhulu kufanele zijabulise noma zenze ibhizinisi.
Ukuzijabulisa kuyinto elula, uma nje ukhetha inethiwekhi yezenhlalo efanele futhi uhileleke emphakathini. Akuwona wonke amanethiwekhi omphakathi adalwe alinganayo, yebo, ngakho-ke kungathatha izinyathelo ezimbalwa ukuthola inethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu, kepha ngezindawo ezintsha zokuxhumana nabantu ezivela njalo, kufanele ukwazi ukuthola okuhlangabezana nezilindelo zakho.
Ukuxhumana nokuxhumana nabantu kunomkhakha webhizinisi ongaphezu kwamanethiwekhi omphakathi anikezelwe ebhizinisini afana ne- Linkedin noma i-XING. Uma ubheka i- MySpace , uzothola amaphrofayli abadlali, abaculi, abaculi, njll. Laba bantu benza ibhizinisi ku-MySpace ngokusiza ukuhlakulela i-fanbase. Kodwa ihamba ngaphezu kwabaningi bokuzijabulisa. Amabhizinisi azo zonke izinhlobo asetha amaphrofayela kumasayithi wokuxhumana nabantu kokubili ukusiza ukukhangisa amasevisi abo nokuvumela abantu bazi izindaba zamanje.
I-Social Networking nawe
Kulabo abafuna ukwazi ukuthi bangaqala kanjani ngokuxhumana nabantu, isinyathelo sokuqala ukuthola ukuthi yini oyifunayo kwinethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu. Kunamawebhusayithi amaningi okuxhumana nabantu . Abanye bagxila ezintweni ezithile ezithinta ezemidlalo, umculo noma ama-movie. Eminye imvelo evamile ekhonza umphakathi jikelele.
Uma usuqonda ukuthi yini oyifunayo ngaphandle kwenethiwekhi yezenhlalo, sekuyisikhathi sokukhetha okulungile kuwe. Ungagcini nje kokuqala. Woza ngenhla encane yokuxhumana nomphakathi okuthakazelisayo bese uzama ngaphambi kokwenza isinqumo. Futhi, akukho mthetho othi awukwazi ukuba yingxenye yamanethiwekhi amaningi uma uthola isinqumo esinzima ukwenza.