Abashayeli Bezocansi Nezobudlelwane Ngokwezansi Ukuthanda Ku-Facebook

Uphendukela ku-Facebook ukuze uthole umngane womshado, kungani ungasebenzisi i-Facebook ukuze uthole ukuthandana nokulingana nobudlelwane? Ngibeke uhlu lwezingu-10 zezocansi ezithakazelisayo kakhulu kanye nabachwepheshe bokuthandana abahlukanisa ubudlelwane ngesikhathi sedijithali.

01 kwezingu-10

USheri Meyers

U-Sheri Meyers, i-Psy.D., ungumLuleli Womshado Nomndeni, futhi umbhali we "Ukuxoxa noma Ukukopela: Indlela Yokuthola Ukungathembeki, Ukuvuselela Uthando Ne-Affair-Ukufakazela Ubuhlobo Bakho" Nezindaba zomphakathi sekuye kwaba lula kakhulu ukuba uhileleke ubuhlobo nomuntu, ngenkathi ebuhlotsheni nomunye umuntu. U-Meyers ubiza lobulili obungokomzwelo futhi uyichaza ngokuthi "ubungane obusondela ekubeni into efana nokuthanda othandweni futhi angabonakalisa ngezindlela eziningi - ngokomzimba, ngokobubele, ngokomzwelo, ngokufisa, ngokusho noma ngasese." UMeyers unikeza owokuqala isahluko sencwadi yakhe mahhala kwiwebhusayithi yakhe. NjengoMeyers ku-Facebook ukuze ufunde ukuthi ungayibona kanjani uma wena noma umngane wakho womshado ukopela nge-cyber nokuthi yini ongayenza ukuze wakhe kabusha ubuhlobo bakho. Okuningi "

02 kwezingu-10

Dan Savage

UDan Savage ungumlobi owaziwa ngokuhlaziya kwakhe kwezombangazwe nezenhlalakahle, kanye nokukhuluma kwakhe ngobuqotho kwezocansi, uthando kanye nobuhlobo. Ikholomu lakhe leseluleko socansi elithi "Savage Love" ikholomu ne-"Savage Lovecast" i-podcast ingenye yamakholomu wezinsizakalo ezingcono kakhulu zobulili kuwebhu. I-Savage yaziwa ngezinto eziningi ezibandakanya ukumazisa ukuqwashisa nge-AIDS, ubulili obuphephile, amalungelo angama-gay kanye nokusekela ngokuyinhloko iphrojekthi ethi "Ithola Better". Okuningi "

03 ka-10

UDkt Debby Herbenick

UDkt. Debby Herbenick ungumcwaningi wezocansi wase-Indiana University kanye nomsunguli we-www.mysexprofesor.com, imfundo ephathelene nocansi, imithombo yezempilo kanye nolwazi. Ikhasi le-Facebook linikeza okuqukethwe okuhlobene nocansi, impilo yezocansi kanye nobuhlobo ukuze kufundiswe futhi kukujabulise. Okuningi "

04 kwezingu-10

Izindaba zobulili zokuphila

Uyazi ukuthi isifundo esisha sitholile ukuthi ukuhlola i-Facebook ne-Twitter kungase kube nzima futhi kunomlutha kunezocansi nogwayi? Uma 'uthanda' ikhasi le-Sex Facts of Life Facebook uzothola amaqiniso ngokobulili, amathiphu kanye nezibalo ezinjengale ndlela ngendlela enhle futhi ethakazelisayo. Leli khasi lichazwe ngokuthi "Amaqiniso angokwesithakazelo, ahlekisayo futhi ajabulisayo ngokocansi empilweni yakho yansuku zonke." Futhi kufanele wabelane ngamaqiniso ekhasini lakho uma ujabulela. Okuningi "

05 ka-10

Emily Morse

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U-Emily Morse waziwa nge-"Sex no-Emily" i-podcast ongayithola ku-SiriusXM futhi ungamkhumbula kumchungechunge we-Bravo othi "Miss Advised" noma incwadi yakhe ethi "Hot Hot: Izinto ezingaphezulu kuka-200 ongazama ngazo namhlanje." Ukhuluma ubulili, ubudlelwane, ukuthandana, ukukopela, umshado, amaphutha, abathandi ngisho nothando ngendlela ehlekisa futhi ehlonishwayo. Okuningi "

06 kwangu-10

Reid Mihalko

Ngokombiko weReid Mihalko, "uma uDkt Ruth noJon Stewart beba nendodana, lo mfana wayezoba nguReid Mihalko." Izikhala zika-Mihalko zika-Facebook zihlale zihlekisa futhi zigcwele ulwazi olubalulekile. Inhloso kaMihalko ukudala ukuzethemba okukhulu, ukuzithemba nokwezempilo kwezocansi kubantu abadala nangaphandle ekamelweni lokulala. Okuningi "

07 kwangu-10

I-AV Flox

I-AV Flox ichaza njengoCarrie Bradshaw, kodwa i-vanilla encane futhi igcwele amashrikhi aphezulu. I-AV Flox yi-Editor's Section Section e-Blogher.com, futhi "i-editrix-in-chief" ye-salacious yet educative sexandthe405.com. Ingabe ufuna umqondisi ohlakaniphile, ovulekile, oqhubekayo, oqhubekayo ohlinzeka ngokuqonda komuntu siqu ngocansi nobuhlobo? Bese unikeza u-AV Flox "okuthandayo." Okuningi »

08 kwezingu-10

Sandra Daugherty

Ukuqonda uSandra UDavid ufunde indlela echaza ngayo lapho eqala ukwazi ukuthi uzoba "u-sexologist." USandra ubelokhu efundisa ngocansi kusukela ebangeni lesi-4. Yisikhathi sokuqala esichaza ngokwesayensi ukuthi izingane zenziwe kanjani esikoleni esikoleni. Kuyinto ejabulisayo ukuzwa oneminyaka engu-9 ubudala ethi "i-fallopian tube". Kwakungakaze kube yi-6th grade ukuthi ufunde ukuthi angakhula ukuze abe "u-sexologist." Njengoba ingqondo yakhe ivutha, waqala ezweni. Njengekhasi elithi "Sex Nerd Sandra" lekhasi le-Facebook ukuze uthole olunye ulwazi oluhlakaniphile, olunolwazi nolwazi olubucayi lobulili, imfundo kanye namathiphu.

09 kwezingu-10

Emily V. Gordon

U-Emily V. Gordon wayengumhlinzeki wombhangqwana futhi usatshela iseluleko sage kubhulogi yakhe. Kodwa manje uGordon ungumhlangano we-Mashable no-Ustream ochungechunge olusha lokucwaninga ngobulili, "Love in the Time of Robots". Njengesiqephu sekhasi lakhe le-Facebook ukuze uthole okwengeziwe ngokuthandana nobudlelwane phakathi nesikhathi semidiya yedijithali nesezenhlalo.

10 kwangu-10

Cindy Gallop

Ngesikhathi beshada nabasilisa abasebasha, ngokuvamile bebaneminyaka engama-20 ubudala, uCindy Gallop wakhuphuka ethi "Yenza Uthando, Hhayi Izinqunu." I-Gallop ichaza ukuthi "Yenza Uthando, Hhayi Izithombe Ezingcolile" njengokuhloswe ukusiza ukugqugquzela nokugqugquzela izingxoxo ezivulekile, ezempilo mayelana nocansi kanye nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ukuze ukusiza ukugqugquzela nokugqugquzela ubuhlobo bobulili obuvulekile, obuphilile futhi obujabulisayo. Inkulumo ye-TED yaseGallop mayelana nokubonisa ubulili bezwe "langempela" futhi unciphise umthelela omubi wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile emiphakathini yethu yezocansi kwaba enye yezinto ezithengiswa kakhulu. Okuningi "