Amazwe amaningi manje anemiyalo ecacile yokuthumelela imiyalezo ye-SMS
Njengoba ukusetshenziswa kwamadivayisi eselula kufinyelele ekuthandeni, ngakho-ke kunomsebenzi ohlotshaniswa nawo: ukuthumela imiyalezo nge-sexting. Ngokwe-Ph.D. U-Elizabeth Hartney, ukuthumelelana nge-sexting "kuyisenzo sokuthumela izinto ezicacile ngokobulili ngokusebenzisa imiyalezo," futhi imiphumela yokwenza kanjalo ibonakala ikhula njengezihloko ngokuphindaphindiwe. Kusukela ku-Anthony Weiner, otholwe yiMeya yaseNew York ehlazolekile, amacala okuthunyelwa kwe-teenager e-Colorado, e-Ohio nase-Connecticut, ukuthumelelana imiyalezo nge-SMS kubonakala sengathi kufinyelela ekuthandweni naphezu kwemiphumela emibi engabangela.
Ukunciphisa ukuxhaphaza u-Sherri Gordon uye wabonisa ukuhlukumeza okungase kubangelwe ukuthumelelana imiyalezo nge-SMS, kufaka phakathi ukuhlazeka, ukuhlazeka, ukulahlekelwa ubungane kanye nokuzizwa benecala, ukuhlazeka, nokungathembeki. Kodwa lezo akuzona kuphela imiphumela okumele zikhathazeke ngayo - ukuthumelelana imiyalezo nge-SMS kungabangela idumela elishaqisayo elingathinta amathuba okuba amathuba emisebenzi kanye nokuzikhandla kwezemfundo. Kungabangela ngisho nezindaba zomthetho.
Izizwe eziningi manje zinemiyalo ye-SMS
Umuntu omdala othumela noma othola izinto ezicacile zobulili zomuntu oneminyaka engaphansi kwengu-18 uncike ekushushisweni ngaphansi komthetho we-federal, okungaholela ekuhlawulweni okukhulu nokuboshwa. Ngenxa yokuthi ukuthumela imiyalezo nge-imeyli kuye kwavame kakhulu phakathi kwentsha, iningi lamazwe liye labeka imithetho ethize ekhuluma ngokuthumela imiyalezo ngezingane ezineminyaka engaphansi kwengu-18, noma ezingu-17 kwezinye izimo. Amanye amazwe amaningi acabangela umthetho obeka izinhlawulo kwabantwana, okubandakanya izixwayiso, izinkokhelo, ukuhlolwa, nokuboshwa.
Izizwe ezenze imithetho yokuthumelelana imiyalezo zihlanganisa:
- I-Arizona
- Arkansas
- Connecticut
- EFlorida
- Georgia
- I-Hawaii
- Illinois
- Louisiana
- I-Nebraska
- I-Nevada
- E-New Jersey
- I-New York
- North Dakota
- Pennsylvania
- I-Rhode Island
- South Dakota
- Texas
- I-Utah
- Vermont
- West Virginia
Kungani uFrance ubeka imithetho yokuthumelelana imiyalezo ngezokuthumela imiyalezo
Ezizweni ngaphandle komthetho othize wezokuthumelelana nge-sexting, ukutholakala kwezinto eziveza ngokocansi ukuveza izingane kubanjwa ngaphansi kwemithetho yezingane ezingcolile zobulili ezingenakho ukuholela ekutheni kubekwe icala lokubhalisa njengecala lobulili. Njengoba i-New York Times yachaza, "Intsha ekhuluma nge-sext isesimweni esingokomthetho esiyingozi. Nakuba emazweni amaningi asebasha abashayelwe eminyakeni yobudala bangakwazi ukuhlanganyela ngokobulili ngokobulili, uma bakha futhi behlanganyela izithombe zabo ezicacile ngokocansi, bakhiqiza ngokweqile, basakaza noma banezingane ezingcolile zobulili. Imithetho ehambisana nalesi simo yadlula emashumini eminyaka adlule, kwakuthathwa ukufaka isicelo kubantu abadala abaxhaphaza izingane futhi bafuna labo ababoshwe ngaphansi kwabo ukuthi babhalise njengabahlukumezi ngokocansi. "
I-Times iyaqhubeka ukubika ukuthi "esikhathini esidlule, abalingani babhala izincwadi zothando, bathumela ama-Polaroids abonisa ukusikisela futhi babe nezocansi zocingo. Namuhla, okungcono noma okubi nakakhulu, lolu hlobo lokukhulumisana ngokocansi olubandakanyeka lwenzeka ngendlela edijithali. "Ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuthumelelana i-sexting yinto eyenziwa intsha eningi - kulinganiselwa ukuthi owesithathu wabantu abaneminyaka engu-16 no-17 ubudala baye bathunyelwa nge-sexted - abaningi izifundazwe zenze imithetho ephethe izinhlawulo ezincane emzamweni wokuvimbela ukuphila ekubhujisweni ngenxa yokuzibandakanya emisebenzini evamile, yanamuhla.
Okufanele Ukwenze Uma Ingane Yakho Ithumela Imiyalezo Ethumayo
Isisebenzi sezenhlalakahle esinelayisensi esinelayisensi u-Amy Morin usikisela izinyathelo eziningana okufanele zithathe uma uthola ukuthi ingane yakho iqhaza ekuthumelelaneni nge-SMS. Kumele ucabange ukuthi kukhona yini inkinga yomthetho futhi uma kunjalo, thintana nommeli obhekene nobugebengu bobulili esifundazweni sakho. Ungabheka izithombe - ukubuka noma ukusabalalisa kungabangela ukuba ukhokhiswe ngokuba nezingane ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile.
Xoxa ukungavumelani kwakho futhi ubeke imiphumela, okungabandakanya ukuvimbela ukufinyeleleka kumadivayisi eselula: ikakhulukazi ngobusuku, njengoba ukuthumelelana nge-imeyli kungenzeka ukuthi kwenzeke ngesikhathi samahora. Futhi qhubeka ukhulumisana uvulekile - yenza ingxoxo ibe yindlela emibili ukuze ingane yakho ikwazi ukubuza imibuzo futhi iqinisekise kuwe.