Indlela Yokutshela Uma Uhoxisiwe
Ukulondeka kokuxhumana nabantu kunesinye isikhathi esetshenziselwa ukubhekisela kumuntu ochitha isikhathi esiningi usebenzisa i- Facebook , i-Twitter kanye nezinye izinhlobo zezindaba zenhlalo - kangangokuthi ziphazamisa ezinye izici zokuphila kwansuku zonke.
Asikho ukuqashelwa kwezempilo okusemthethweni kokulutha ukuxhumana nabantu njengesifo noma isifo. Noma kunjalo, iqoqo lokuziphatha elihambisana nokusetshenziswa okunzima noma ngokweqile kwezokuxhumana kwezenhlalo sekuyizingxoxo eziningi nokucwaninga
Ukuchaza Umlutha Wezokuxhumana Komphakathi
Isiyaluyalu ngokuvamile sibhekisela ekuziphatheni okucindezelayo okuholela emiphumeleni emibi. Ezingxenyeni eziningi, abantu bazizwa bephoqelelwe ukwenza imisebenzi ethile njalo ukuthi baba umkhuba onobungozi, okuphazamisa ezinye izinto ezibalulekile ezifana nomsebenzi noma isikole.
Kulo mongo, umlutha wokuxhumana nabantu ungabhekwa njengomuntu onesibopho sokusebenzisa imithombo yezokuxhumana ngokweqile - ukuhlola njalo isimo se- Facebook noma "ukugxilisa" amaphrofayela abantu ku-Facebook, isibonelo, amahora ekugcineni.
Kodwa kunzima ukutshela lapho ukuthanda ngomsebenzi kuba ukuthembela futhi uwela umzila ube umkhuba olimazayo noma umlutha. Ingabe ukuchitha amahora amathathu ngosuku ku-Twitter ukufunda ukufunda ama-tweets okungahleliwe kusuka kubantu abangabazi kusho ukuthi ungumlutha we-Twitter? Kuthiwani amahora amahlanu? Ungaphikisana ukuthi uvele ufunda izindaba eziyinhloko noma kudingeka ukuthi uhlale njengamanje ensimini yakho emsebenzini, kwesokudla?
Abacwaningi e-Chicago University baphetha ngokuthi ukulutha kwemithombo yezokuxhumana komphakathi kungaba namandla kunomlutha kagwayi nokuphuza emva kokuhlolwa lapho babhala khona izinkanuko zabantu abangamakhulu amaningana amasonto amaningana. Izifiso zeMedia zibalwe ngaphambi kokufisa ukubhema nodoti.
Futhi eHarvard University, abacwaningi empeleni baphoqa abantu kuze kube yimishini esebenzayo ye-MRI ukuskena ubuchopho babo futhi babone ukuthi kwenzekani lapho bekhuluma ngabo, okuyingxenye eyinhloko yalokho abantu abakwenzayo emithonjeni yezenhlalo. Bathole ukuthi ukukhulumisana ngokuziveza kuveza izikhungo zokuthokozisa ubuchopho njengokufana nobulili nokudla.
Iningi labahlengikazi liye laphawula izimpawu zokukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka nezinye izinkinga ezingokwengqondo kubantu abachitha isikhathi esiningi ku-intanethi , kodwa ubufakazi obunzima obutholakale bubonisa ukuthi imithombo yezenhlalo noma ukusetshenziswa kwe-Inthanethi kubangele izimpawu. Kunokuntuleka kwedatha okufanayo mayelana nokulutha kokuxhumana nabantu.
Ushadile Nabezindaba Zomphakathi?
Ochwepheshe bezenhlalakahle nezangqondo, okwamanje, bebehlolisisa umthelela wokuxhumana nabantu ekuxoxweni kwezwe langempela, ikakhulukazi umshado, kanti abanye baye babuza ukuthi ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kwezindaba zenhlalo kungaba nengxenye ekuhlukaniseni.
I-Wall Street Journal ihlelwe ukuthi imibiko emisha engu-1 kwimi-5 yonakaliswa yi-Facebook, ebona ukuthi kubonakala sengathi akukho bufakazi besayense obusekela idatha enjalo.
U-Sherry Turkle, umcwaningi eMassachusetts Institute of Technology, uye wabhala kabanzi mayelana nomthelela wezokuxhumana emphakathini ebuhlotsheni, echaza ukuthi empeleni banciphisa izibopho zabantu. Encwadini yakhe, Alone Together: Kungani Sibheke Okunye Kubuchwepheshe Nezingaphansi Komunye Nomunye, ubhala eminye imiphumela emibi yokuhlala ixhunywe nobuchwepheshe, okuyinto engavamile ukuthi ingashiya abantu bazizwe bebodwa.
Noma kunjalo, abanye abacwaningi baye baphetha ngokuthi ukuxhumana nabantu kungenza abantu bazizwe behle ngokwabo futhi bexhunywe emphakathini.
I-Internet Addiction Disorder
Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kwamanethiwekhi omphakathi kungumhlobo wamuva we-"Insemination Addiction Disorder," abantu bokuqala baqala ukubhala cishe ngawo-1990 lapho ukusetshenziswa kwe-Inthanethi kwase kuqale ukusakazeka. Ngisho nangaleso sikhathi, abantu bathi ukusetshenzwa kanzima kwe-intanethi kungalimaza ukusebenza kwabantu emsebenzini, esikoleni nasebudlelwaneni bomndeni.
Eminyakeni engaba ngu-20 kamuva, asisavumelwane ukuthi ukusebenzisa ngokweqile i-intanethi noma amasevisi okuxhumana nabantu okuxhumano ne-pathological noma kufanele kuthathwe njengesifo sezokwelapha. Abanye baye bacela i-American Psychological Association ukuba bengeze ukuxilongwa kwe-intanethi ku-bible yezokwelapha ezisemthethweni, kepha i-APA inqabe kakhulu (okungenani njengale mibhalo).
Uma ngabe uzibuza, noma ngabe ungase usebenzise okuningi kakhulu ku-intanethi, zama ukuhlola ukulutha kwe-Inthanethi.