Ukuxhumana nabantu okuchazwe ngemibandela elula
Ukuxhumana nomphakathi kuye kwakhula ukuba kube yinto enkulu kunazo zonke nezithonya kakhulu kuwebhu, kodwa naphezu kokuthi kunjani ezweni laseNtshonalanga (ikakhulukazi phakathi kwesixuku esincane), akuwona wonke umuntu oyisebenzisayo noma oyiqonda.
Imvelo evulekile yokuxhumana nomphakathi inganezela ekudidekeni. Uma ungene ngemvume kwinethiwekhi yomphakathi, uma uphendule imibuzo embalwa yephrofayela eyisisekelo, kulula ukuhlala futhi uzibuze ukuthi yini okufanele ukwenze ngokulandelayo.
Ama-Social Networks: Ukuqonda Okulula
Mhlawumbe indlela elula yokuqonda ukuxhumana nabantu ukucabanga ngakho njengesikole esiphakeme. Unabangane esikoleni futhi wazi abantu abambalwa ngisho noma ubungenabo abangane nabo bonke, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi awukwazi wonke umuntu.
Uma wake wathuthela esikoleni esisha, noma uma ucabanga ukuthi uhamba esikoleni esisha, uqala ngaphandle nabangane. Ngemva kokuya esikoleni, uqala ukuhlangana nabantu, futhi lapho uhlangana nabo, uqala ukuzihlanganisa nalabo abanesithakazelo esifanayo.
Ukuqala ngezinhlelo zokuxhumana nabantu kufana nokuqala isikole esisha. Ekuqaleni, awunabo abangane, kodwa njengoba ujoyina amaqembu futhi uqala ukuhlangana nabantu abasha, wakhela uhlu lwabangane labo abanentshisekelo efanayo.
Ukuya enkulumweni yomsebenzi ukuze ufunde kabanzi mayelana namabhizinisi endaweni yakini, futhi kuyindlela yokuxhumana nabantu. Kungenzeka ukuthi wezwa ukuthi ukuxhumana nabantu kubalulekile ekutholeni umsebenzi. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ukuthi ukwazi abantu (ezenhlalakahle) nokuxhumana nabo (ukuxhumana) kungakusiza ukuba usebenze umsebenzi mhlawumbe kube lula kunomuntu owehlayo lowo mzila.
Ngomongo we-intanethi, yilokho ukuxhumana nabantu, ngaphandle kwe-intanethi.
Ukuxhumana nabantu kuncike kwisakhiwo esithile esivumela abantu bobabili ukuthi babonise ukuthi bayobuntu futhi bahlangane nabantu abanentshisekelo efanayo. Ngezansi kukhona izingxenye ezimbalwa ezivamile ezitholakala kumawebhusayithi amaningi okuxhumana nabantu.
Iphrofayela yomphakathi
Lena yingxenye yakho encane ye-digital real estate lapho utshela khona umhlaba ngawe. Amaphrofayela aqukethe ulwazi oluyisisekelo olufana nesithombe (ngokuvamile ngokwakho), i-bio emfushane, indawo, iwebhusayithi, kanye neminye imibuzo engachaza ubuntu bakho (isib. Umlingisi ozithandayo noma incwadi).
Amanethiwekhi omphakathi azinikezele ekhoneni elikhethekile njengomculo noma ama-movie angase abuze imibuzo ehlobene naleso sihloko. Ngale ndlela, amawebhusayithi wokuthandana angabonwa njengewebhusayithi yokuxhumana nabantu ngoba bakusakaza nabanye abantu abafuna izinto ezifanayo.
Abangane nabalandeli
Abangane kanye nabalandeli kuyinhliziyo nomphefumulo wokuxhumana nabantu - emva kwakho konke, lokho kuyisici "senhlalo".
Bangamalungu wewebhusayithi oyithembayo kuze kube yilapho ebavumela ukuba bathumele amazwana kuphrofayela yakho, bona ukuthi yini oyithumele ku-intanethi, futhi ikuthumelele imilayezo.
Ithiphu: Bona lezi zithandwayo ezithandwayo zokuthunyelwa kwezindaba zenhlalo ukuze ubone ukuthi abantu bathanda ukuthumela kumawebhusayithi wezokuxhumana .
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi akuwona wonke amanethiwekhi omphakathi abheke kubo njengabangane noma abalandeli. I-LinkedIn ithi "ukuxhumeka," kodwa wonke amanethiwekhi omphakathi anendlela yokukhetha amalungu athembekile.
Okuphakelayo Kwekhaya
Njengoba umgomo wokuxhumana nabantu ukuxhuma nokuxhumana nabanye, uhlobo oluthile lwekhasi elithi "main" noma "ikhaya" cishe cishe yonke inethiwekhi yomphakathi isho ngokuqondile ukudla okubukhoma kwezibuyekezo ezivela kubangani.
Lokhu kunikeza abasebenzisi isikhathi sokubheka kwangempela konke okushiwo abangani babo.
Ukuthandwa namazwana
Eziningi zokuxhumana nabantu zenze kube lula kubasebenzisi ukuthi "bathande" okuqukethwe komunye umsebenzisi ngokuthepha noma ngokuchofoza into efana nesithupha noma inkinobho yenhliziyo. Kuyindlela elula futhi eqondile yokubeka isitembu sakho sokuvunywa kwenye into umngani oyithumele kodwa ngaphandle kokuphawula okuthile okuqondile.
Ngezinye izikhathi, lokhu kusetshenziselwa ukuvuma okulula kokuthunyelwe. Lokhu kuyasiza ngokukhethekile ukucabangela ezinye zokuxhumana nomphakathi akubonisi ukuthi ubani obonile okuthumele.
Okugxilwe phambili kwamaqembu ukudala ukusebenzisana phakathi kwabasebenzisi ngendlela yamazwana noma izingxoxo, yingakho amanethiwekhi amaningi omphakathi asekela ukuphawula cishe kuzo zonke izinhlobo zokuthunyelwa.
Ukuphawula ngakunye ngaphakathi kwefomu lokuthunyelwe okulodwa kungadluliselwa njengomcubisho. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ikhasi eliyinhloko / lasekhaya lesayithi lokuxhumana nabantu lingabutha kalula amakhulu noma izinkulungwane zezintambo.
Amaqembu namathegi
Amanye amanethiwekhi omphakathi asebenzisa amaqembu ukukusiza uthole abantu abanentshisekelo efanayo noma uhlanganyele ezingxoxweni ngezihloko ezithile. Iqembu lingaba yilokho okuvela ku- "Johnson High Class of '98" noma "Abantu Abafana Namabhuku" kuya "Emasangweni Ezintambo".
Amaqembu wokuxhumana nabantu bobabili indlela yokuxhumana nabantu abanomqondo ofanayo kanye nendlela yokubona izithakazelo zakho.
Ngezinye izikhathi, amaqembu abizwa ngamanye amagama, njenge "amanethiwekhi" ku-Facebook.
Njengokunye kwamaqembu, eziningi zokuxhumana nomphakathi ziye zashintsha ukumaka okuvumela abasebenzisi ukuhlukanisa okuthunyelwe kwabo ngokusho kwesihloko sabo.
Amanethiwekhi omphakathi azokhiqiza ngokuzenzakalelayo ithegi uma uthayipha uphawu lwepound (#) ngaphambi kwegama elingukhiye (elibizwa ngokuthi i- hashtag ) noma lifuna ukuthi ufake amagama amaningana angukhiye endaweni ethile yamathegi.
Lawa makaki abe yizixhumanisi, futhi uma uchofoza noma uwaphephe, akuyisa ekhasini elisha lapho ungabona khona konke okuthunyelwe kwakamuva kunabo bonke abakufaka leyo tag kumaposi abo.
Kungani Kufanele Uqale Ukuxhumana Nabantu?
Ukuxhumana nabantu kuyindlela enhle yokuzijabulisa, kuhle ukuhlangana nabantu abanentshisekelo efanayo, futhi kuyasiza kakhulu ukuhlala uxhumane nabangane abadala / abajwayele.
Kungaba futhi ithuluzi lokuphromotha eliphumelelayo kakhulu lamabhizinisi, osomabhizinisi, abalobi, abadlali, abaculi noma abaculi.
Iningi lethu linezinto zokuzilibazisa noma izinto esizithandayo, njengezincwadi, ithelevishini, imidlalo yamavidiyo, noma ama-movie. Amanethiwekhi omphakathi asivumela ukuba sifinyelele kwabanye abanesithakazelo esifanayo.
Ngiyiphi Inethiwekhi Yomphakathi Engiyijoyine? Ngingumuntu Omdala?
Awusoze usudala kakhulu ukuba ungene ekuxhumaneni kwezenhlalo, futhi kunamanethiwekhi amanethiwekhi athandwayo atholakala kuwo, kufaka phakathi amanethiwekhi omphakathi we-niche agxile esihlokweni esithize noma isitayela sokuthumela.
Uma ugxiliwe ekuxhumaneni okuxhumana nomphakathi ukujoyina kuqala, bheka lolu hlu lwamanethiwekhi omphakathi aphezulu ukuze uthole ukuboniswa kwalokho okunikezwa ngamunye. Zama okukodwa uphinde ubone ukuthi yini okusebenzela wena. Ungakwazi ukuhamba njalo bese uzama okunye uma ungapheli ukuthanda.
Uma usuzingenele esiteshini sezokuxhumana zenhlalo, cabangela ukuthatha uhlelo lokusebenza lokuphathwa kwezokuxhumana .