Ama-Guys angu-8 owahlangana ku-Grindr (Nezinye izinhlelo zokusebenza ze-Gay)

(Futhi Ezinye Izinto Okufanele Uzazi Ngezinhlelo Zokuthandana Gay)

Uma ukuthola umngane ohambisanayo noma umlingani kuma-apps gay kungase kubonakale kulula ukunikezwa okuhlukahlukene kwezinketho, ukuthola umuntu onomzwelo nangokomzimba etholakalayo kungenye enye inkinga. Kuzo zonke izinketho eziningi, kusukela eBhoyahoy naseGrindr kuya ku-Growlr ne-Scruff, la madoda angenamkhawulo kodwa ubuntu babo buwela kalula kwizigaba eziyisishiyagalombili ezihlukene.

Inothi kubazali : Uma unesifiso sokwazi okwengeziwe ngohlelo lokusebenza lwe-Grindr indodana yakho ifoni yakho, sinomhlahlandlela womzali ku-Grindr ohlanganisa yonke imininingwane oyidingayo ukwazi.

01 ngo-08

Abakwa-Stalkers

Ryan Klos / E + / Getty Izithombe

Uma ngabe usuhlelo lokusebenza lwama-gay okwesikhashana, uyazi kahle i-stalker: bayakwazi ukuhlala kuwo wonke amahora ebusuku, bebheka iphrofayela yakho nezithombe zakho ngaphandle kokusho igama. Ubabona ohlwini lwabavakashi bakho ekuqaleni futhi kaningi kodwa abakwazanga ukubamba esenzweni - noma ngaphezulu, uvinjelwe uma uzama ukubhekana nabo.

Ukuguqula ama-Stalkers ezinsukwini ezingenzeka

02 ngo-08

Ama-Flashers

Isithombe esihle, Rakos_Poz / SXC.hu (http://www.sxc.hu/profile/rakos_poz)

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyabathanda noma uyabazonda, ukukhanya okuyisigqila kuyindawo evelele yomphakathi wama-gay futhi abanaso ikhono lokubonisa isikhumba esincane. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bavula izithombe zabo ngaphandle kokubingelelana noma ukuphazamisa ngokuphazima kwesikhashana ingxoxo, i-flasher iyashukumisa futhi ihlasela ngaphandle kokuxwayisa.

4 Izindlela Zokubhekana Ne-Flashing

03 ngo-08

Abaqoqi bezobuciko

Isithombe se-Courtesy, Filipefrad, SXC.hu (http://www.sxc.hu/profile/filipefrad)

I-reverse ye-flasher kodwa mhlawumbe ecasulayo kakhulu umqoqo wezobuciko, umsebenzisi wohlelo lokusebenza lomlingani we-gay ongakapheli izidingo zawo ukubona iphothifoliyo yakho. "Ungakwazi yini ukuvula izithombe zakho?" "Ukhona yini i-pix?" Uphi ama-nudes akho? Laba bantu bahlala bengenasisekelo ekufuneni kwabo ukubona okuningi kwakho.

Ukuheha ukubuka okuningi ngezithombe

04 ngo-08

Isixuku Esithathu

Isithombe esihloniphekile, i-Piotr Bizior (http://www.sxc.hu/profile/bizior)

Abafana abakha lo mphakathi wabasebenzisi be-app akubona abantu ababi, kodwa uma ufuna umngane noma uxhumano lomthando, angeke atholakale (futhi kungase kuthole ukuthungatha). Abantu abathathu abaqoqiwe yibo abavele bahlukanisile, ebuhlotsheni obuvulekile noma "nje befuna abangani" ngenkathi behlanganisiwe. Hamba ngokucophelela uma ungenazo izibopho ezihambisana nazo.

Usizo lomsebenzisi wohlelo lokusebenza lomshado we-Gay oshadile

05 ka-08

I-Incognitos

Isithombe se-Courtesy, Loleia / SXC.hu (http://www.sxc.hu/profile/loleia)

Ngokuvamile kutholakala kuma- gay zokusebenza ngaphandle kwesithombe esithombeni noma okunye okungabonakali, okufanekisiwe noma okungenakukwazi ukubona (njengodonga noma embhedeni wabo), i-agent eyimfihlo inento yokufihla, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ayikho ngaphandle kobulili, ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ubuhlobo kodwa ukwesaba ukubanjwa, noma ukukhathazeka mayelana nokuqashwa ngabasebenzi / abaqashi / abafundi, njll. Laba bantu bangase babe abantu abahle kakhulu, abanomzwelo, kodwa kuwukuhlakanipha ukuqapha.

Indlela Yokuyeka Ukufihla

06 ka-08

Abakwa-Static Clingers

Isithombe se-Courtesy, KevinMood / SXC.hu (http://www.sxc.hu/profile/kevinmood)

I-Saccharin enhle futhi njalo enento enhle yokusho, laba bafana bendlu engasemuva bangase babonakale njengento enhle ekuqaleni - uze uqaphele ukuthi abazi ukuthi bangayiyeka kanjani. Ababambe iqhaza abahlala njalo banomyalezo okulindele wena kanye nokubonga okuzokwabelana ngawo. Ukuzizwa ufisa kuyinto enhle kodwa ubukele izimpawu zokuzihlonipha okuphansi nokuziphatha okuphoqeleka okungase kubangele ukuthi bangafaneleki ubuhlobo.

Ukuthandana Ngaphandle Kokwehluleka

07 ngo-08

Abakhohlisi

Isithombe esihloniphekile, uRichard Dudley / SXC.hu (http://www.sxc.hu/profile/bluegum)

Ukholwe noma cha, kunabesifazane abaningi kuzinhlelo zokusebenza zobungqingili kunokuba ungase ucabange, wonke umuntu osuka kumngane omkhulu womfana uhlehlisa umdlalo ongase abe nawo egameni labo abathandana nabo abajabulela ukudlala imidlalo nabafana, njengontanga yami eyodwa esanda kuvunyelwa. Ngenkathi kungekho ndlela yokutshela ukuthi ngubani ongumphangi futhi ongekho, ukwenza umqondo ovamile nokuthatha izinyathelo ngemifanekiso yakho nolwazi kuzokusiza ugcine uphephile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Zivikele Kuzinhlelo zokusebenza ze-Gay

08 ngo-08

Lowo Okade Ulindele

Isithombe sihloniphekile, i-PixelIngubo / i-SXC.hu (http://www.sxc.hu/profile/pixelfairy)

Yebo, kuyiqiniso, umuntu wamaphupho akho angase abe omunye wabantu ohlangana nabo kuhlelo lokusebenza lwama-gay. Ngeshwa, enye inkulumo engiyizwayo kaningi kakhulu kunalokho ukuthi lezi zinhlelo zokusebenza zizokwenza kuphela. Iqiniso liyatshelwa, ngeke babe nezinketho "abangane," "ingxoxo," "ukuthandana," noma "uthando" uma kunjalo! Ungavinjelwa ezinye izinhlobo ezingu-7 ezingakunikela ekufuneni kwakho. Angase abe ohlwini lwama "eduze" lwezinhlelo zakho zokusebenza ozithandayo okwamanje.

Amathiphu Obudlelwane obuhle beGay

Kubuyekezwe ngu-Christina Michelle Bailey, 6/30/16