(Futhi i-Its Spousal Version, 'PPhubbing'?)
01 ka 09
Ukuqhaqhaza Ingabe Ukushaya Ngomunye Umuntu
Yebo, ukuphuza kuyinto ukuhlunga ifoni. Lokhu kungukuthi lapho umuntu ehlwitha ngobuqili futhi engakunaki esimweni senhlalo ngokuvumelana ne-smartphone yabo. Isimo esivamile kakhulu: umuntu okhuluma naye uthola umlayezo wombhalo noma uqaphile efonini yabo, noma mhlawumbe ngisho nekholi engenayo, futhi ubukhona bakho bubekwe emaminithini ambalwa ngokuthanda i-smartphone. Isiqephu siphelela 'ukuzisola okungenakubili' ngaleyo ndlela, kulandelwa ukufakela ukungezwani okungenani imizuzu eminingana.
I-phubbing ihlukumeza kakhulu uma kungesona isaziso somyalezo; uma umonile evula ukungena okusheshayo kwefoni, njengokuhlola i-Facebook noma i-Instagram feed yayo, basuke bethi ukubonakala kwakho kubaluleke kakhulu kubo manje.
02 ka 09
I-PPhubbing = Ifoni-Ukunciphisa Ngomngani Wakho
I-term phubbing nayo inehlukahluka okukhethekile, i-pphubbing 'isipelingi eneP . double PPhubbing yilapho umlingani wakho wokuphila efonini ehlwitha khona . Futhi yebo, i-pphubbing ngezinye izikhathi iyavame kakhulu kune-phubbing ejwayelekile, ngokuqondile ngoba umlingani wakho wokuphila ukholelwa ukuthi bathola i-leeway yomphakathi njengomlingani wakho.
03 ka 09
Umsuka wamazwi we-Phubbing ne-PPhubbing
Inkulumo ye-phubbing yikho kokubili i-portmanteau (inhlanganisela yamagama amabili) ne-neologism (igama elisha elisha eliqala ukujwayelekile). Ilandelana ne-ejensi yokukhangisa yase-Australia, uMcCann Melbourne nomkhankaso wabo we-Stop Phubbing ngo-2012.
04 ka 09
Kubi Kanjani Ukunambitheka Kwamafoni Emhlabeni Wonke?
Kubi. Abantu kuyo yonke indawo bafunda ukulinganisela ukuziphatha okuhle ngokumelene nokuphoqelelwa ukuxhumana njalo. Ukuxhumana nge-Handheld kuseyinto entsha, futhi uma kuziwa kuma-middle-way, ukuphuthuma kokuphatha ukuzisika kwabo kwe-digital kucindezela kakhulu.
Ukukhangisa kukaMcCann kunezibalo ezithakazelisayo ezitholakala kwiwebhusayithi yazo yokuqeda.
05 ka 09
Yini Ongayenza Ngokukhukhumeza?
Njenganoma yikuphi ukuxhumana okungakhululekile, ungakhetha ukungasho lutho kumngane wakho noma kumngane wakho, futhi nje ubanike umbono odidekile. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ungayishintsha umzuzu ohlekisayo, bese ubhala 'i-phubbing citation' esitokisini sokudlela bese uyinikeza yona. Noma ungathumela i-imeyli 'yokungenelela' nge-imeyili kubantu abalungile ekukhangiseni kukaMcCann lapha. Yebo, ungagcwalisa ifomu le-intanethi bese uyithumele nge-imeyili ngqo kumuntu ocingweni.
Azikho iziqinisekiso zokuthi i-imeyili izozuza noma yini. Kodwa uma ukhathalela ngokwanele ngomuntu ukuthi ubanike impendulo eyesekayo, mhlawumbe zama indlela ye-imeyili ye-McCann.
06 ka 09
Okunye okukhulunywe kombhalo wombhalo
Kanye ne-'phubbing ', izinkulumo eziningi eziyinqaba nezinhlamvu ezivelele ziye zavela njengengxenye yenkambiso yesimanje exhunyiwe. I-About.com ichaza izinkulumo zenkulumo ethandwayo lapha .
07 ka 09
Imiphumela Yempilo Yengqondo Yokusebenzisa Umakhalekhukhwini Wakho
Ngesikhathi amadivayisi eselula ewusizo kakhulu, angabangela nezinkinga ezinkulu ezingokwengqondo. Ukukhukhuma kuvame ukuqhutshwa ukuthambekela okuphoqelekile futhi kungakondla ukuhlaziywa kanye nokubukwa komuntu siqu. Okungakhulumi: ukuphuza i-eroding trust kanye nokuhlonipha phakathi kwabahlobo nabashadile.
08 ka 09
Amafoni Weselula Ukwenza Uxhumeke Ngaphansi?
Uma uchitha isikhathi ndawonye nomntanakho, umlingani wakho, umngane wakho, noma isihlobo sakho, kodwa umatasa uhamba ngemilayezo yakho yombhalo, uthumela umyalezo onobuthi: 'ifoni yami ifanele inhlonipho ephakeme kunawe.'
Ngenxa yokwesaba kwakho kokunqanyulwa, ukuhlukumeza kwakho empeleni kungcolisa ubuhlobo bakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubuyisele lo mlayezo wombhalo ngokushesha, kodwa futhi uchithe uxhumano lwakho nomuntu ohlezi eceleni kwakho.
Ukulimala ekusetshenzisweni komakhalekhukhwini kuyinkinga ekhulayo yengqondo, iningi lethu liwela isisulu sokuxhumana kwe-speed speed. Kudingeka siqaphele: ukuhlala kudijithali kuxhunyiwe kuhle, kodwa hhayi ngezindleko zokungabi nabasebenzi emphakathini ngenxa yokuthi ama-smartphones ethu ahlale ehlaziya.
09 ka 09
Okunye Ukufundwa Okuphakanyisiwe
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