Izimo Zengqondo Nezimfanelo Ezingafihliwe Kunganciphisa Ukubambisana
Uyakholelwa ukuthi sisebenzisana uma sidingeka noma sithandeka kakhulu ukusebenza ndawonye? Incwadi kaMorten T. Hansen, Ukubambisana , ubonisa izithiyo ezine eziqondile ezingase zivimbele ukubambisana okuvela kuzo zonke izinyunithi zenhlangano ukuthuthukisa imiphumela.
Ngemuva kokucwaninga kakhulu mayelana nokubambisana , okufaka phakathi umehluko phakathi kokubambisana okuhle nokubi, iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-15, uHenen useyisikhulu esaziwayo ensimini yokuphatha futhi njengamanje uprofesa e-UC Berkeley School of Information.
Uma nje ithemba lokubambisana lizofeza imiphumela enkulu, kungani ungahlanganyeli? Enye yezindinganiso eziyinhloko, futhi ngokuvamile enganakiwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abantu bayathanda. Ukuqonda izithiyo u-Hansen azitholile ocwaningweni lwakhe, kufaka phakathi iziguquko ezihambisanayo zokuziphatha nezengqondo zingakunika ukucabanga. Okubaluleke nakakhulu, ukukhomba izithiyo zokusebenzisana kungaba isinyathelo esilandelayo kuwe noma iqembu lakho ukuze uthuthuke.
Isivinini Esingekho-Esifakiwe: Akusizimisele Ukufinyelela Abanye
Isivinini esingasungulwa-lapha kungenzeka sisuka ekunciphiseni okukhuthazayo, lapho abantu bengathandi ukufinyelela kwabanye. Uma kubalwa, kwenzekani? Njengoba uHanen eveza ngalesi sithiyo, ukuxhumana ngokuvamile kuhlala ngaphakathi eqenjini futhi abantu bavikela ukuzikhathalela. Wake wahlangabezana nesimo esinjalo? Ukuziqhenya kungase kufike endleleni.
Izikhala zesimo nokuzimela ezinye izimo zengqondo eziwela kulolu hlobo lwesithintelo. Abantu, abanesimo sengqondo sokuzethemba, bazozizwa sidinga ukuxazulula izinkinga zethu, esikhundleni sokuphuma ngaphandle kweqembu. Ngezinye izikhathi ukwesaba kungasivimbela nje ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi kubonakala sengathi sibuthakathaka. Inkulumo ethi, "Angazi" isitatimende esinamandla - ngakho-ke ungavumeli abanye bakusize uthole izimpendulo.
I-Barrier Barrier: Not Willing to Provide Help
Isivinini sokukhawula sibhekisela kubantu abangase babambe noma bangabambisani ngenxa yezizathu eziningana. Ubuhlobo bokuncintisana emkhatsini weminyango mayelana nokusebenza noma ubunikazi bemiphumela kuzokwenqabela ukusebenzisana. Esikhathini lapho omunye osebenza naye engase enze umehluko, kodwa wathi, "Awuzange ubuze" - ngokucacile yisibonelo sokubheka.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu besaba ukulahlekelwa amandla uma bekwabelana ngolwazi noma uma umbono ubambisana kuthatha isikhathi esiningi. Izingqinamba zamandla ezinhlanganweni ziyoqhubeka kuze kube yilapho ubuholi bungabangela ukuthembela.
Uma uvuza abantu ngenxa yomsebenzi wabo kuphela hhayi ukusiza abanye, lokhu kuzokwenzela ukukhwabanisa. Ukuze unqobe ukuhlehlisa, imidlalo yeqembu, njengebhaketi ibhola inikeza isibonelo esihle sokubonisa ukubaluleka kokuvuma abadlali "abasizi" babo hhayi nje amaphuzu abawaqondile ngqo.
Sesha ibhakhodi: Ayikwazi ukuthola ukuthi yini oyifunayo
Umkhawulo wokusesha ukhona uma izixazululo zingene ngaphakathi kwezinhlangano futhi abantu abakwazi ukuthola ulwazi noma abantu abangabasiza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ulwazi oluthe xaxa lungaphinde luthinte ukusesha ebhizinisini. Ezinkampanini ezinkulu ezinjalo lapho izinsizakalo zisakazwa kuyo yonke iminyango kanye nokuhlukana kanye nezindawo zendawo, ukusesha kuyinkinga ngenxa yokungabi namanethiwekhi ananele okuxhuma abantu.
Ngokusho kukaHansen nezinye izifundo ezenziwe, abantu bakhetha ukusondelana ngokomzimba. Noma kunjalo, ingqondo ishintsha njengamaqhinga okusebenzisana namabhizinisi okusebenzisana ukuxhuma abantu ku-intanethi kuyo yonke imingcele yezwe ukuthuthukisa ukutholakala kolwazi nezinsiza.
Abantu bajwayele ukusebenza ezweni elibonakalayo lamadivayisi axhunyiwe amaningi kanye namathuluzi wokubambisana asekelwe kusiphequluli ukusebenza noma kuphi, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Ngomfanekiso ofanayo, abantu badinga ukuxhumana ubuso nobuso, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kumuntu siqu, noma ukusebenzisa izinhlelo zokuxhumana ngezwi nevidiyo ezingenza ukuxhumeka ngokomzimba kungcono kakhulu okulandelayo.
I-Barrier yokudlulisa: Ayikwazi ukusebenza nabantu AbaDon & # 39; t Yazi kahle
Isivinini sokudlulisa senzekile uma abantu bengazi kanjani ukusebenza ndawonye. Isibonelo, inqwaba yolwazi kumakhasela esitolo noma ekhompyutheni yekhompyutha, evame ukubizwa ngokuthi ulwazi olunembile, noma ngisho nomkhiqizo noma isevisi "ukwazi" ukuthi ukuthatha ulwazi lokufunda kungaba nzima ukudlulisela kwabanye.
Kwezinye izimo ezithile, abantu basebenza kangcono ndawonye, kubandakanya abaculi, ososayensi namathimba ezemidlalo. Izinto ezivamile phakathi kwamasiko namaqembu abambisana abajwayele ukuba nobuhlobo obuseduze buyethemba, inhlonipho, kanye nobungane.